I have a very small threshold for forgiving men who leave the women they supposedly love abandoning them to their fate in a world that is incredibly hostile to them. I don't believe that a man who does the above truly loves you and I think you should never take them back because if they did it once, what stops them from doing it again?
That's right. Nothing.
Women should leave these type of men behind because they are unreliable little boys who will never bring you security. Also, once your trust in a person is completely broken you can fix it but you can still see the cracks in that m***rf***ng reflection.